In the
words of the song: “It’s a new dawn. It’s a new day.” I’ve treated myself to
over two weeks off work this Christmas/New Year, and I’m feeling relaxed, happy
and full of ambition.
I
spent a fair bit of time in the last few months of 2013 feeling sorry for
myself. The charity I loved working for had merged with another. I felt sad,
hard done-by and (honestly) pretty pissed off with it all.
Always look on the bright side
of life
I make
no secret of the fact that I have suffered with depression. It was the year off
work with this disease that led me to the charity sector and fundraising, where
I have had the joy of finding the career for me. I’ve worked with some amazing
people, and made some wonderful friends. But for a little while I allowed
myself to fall out of love with it and start to wallow in self-pity.
In all
seriousness, I needed to get some perspective. After all, I have my health. I have
a roof over my head. I can pay my bills. I can live my life. I have my amazing
friends and family. And, I do love
fundraising. It fires me up.
So, in
2014 I am going to remember all the lessons I learned in my ‘wilderness year.’
I am going to focus on the positive and list three good things that happen
every day.
Don’t be backwards in coming
forwards
I’ve
heard this phrase a lot over my life. From my family, at school, from friends,
at work. I’ve always been a little bit proud of the fact that I’m happy to
challenge things. Or to be the one to speak up if needed. Or to have the
discussions needed to make change happen.
However,
the last few months of 2013 knocked my confidence. I let myself lose my voice. It
might not have been obvious, but I could feel the difference. I allowed things
to happen to me rather than being in control. Whilst accepting there are things
I cannot change, where I can I will certainly try.
I’m entering
2014 with a renewed feeling of vigour. The voice is back. I’m feeling powerful
and strong. So, I’m going to harness
this and use it to push me forwards in doing what I want to do – raising money
for an amazing cause.
And I’m
also going to take time for the little things I enjoy about work. Reading
fundraising social media, blogs and websites. Getting involved with the
Institute of Fundraising. Writing blog posts on Charity Chicks about whatever
takes my fancy. Making time to meet with fundraising friends.
After
all, as Eleanor Roosevelt said: “Life is what you make it. Always has been,
always will be.”
Danielle Atkinson
@roxymartinique
your blog is awesome! I work in legacy fundraising and I love reading about the peoples fundraising ideas - I will be a regular visitor to your blog that's for sure
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